"Leave when they know how we feel" - if they don't feel the same way about us and if they are our true friends - honest and not out to use us for their own benefits. It works both ways for both men and women.

Agree with owen and greentea - if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. Move on. If it's recent, it's easier said than done but it is certainly possible. Keep the mind occupied and it gets easier with time. And we get stronger internally. Not cold, hard-hearted and unfeeling but a strong and unshakable character, refined by fire.

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Life is short. Live it to the fullest!