Very well said, this need to be closely monitored and stopped. your quote "people who have actually lost lives of their close ones might disagree" unquote.

Revenge is the mother of all problems, which should be well understood and be compensated through state driven empathiese campaign to those who suffered.
Rather creating militarising zones. this will go into big debate. Either you talk about Kashmir, North East, Punjab, Orissa or Andhra; the scenario is same. NGO's and Government organisation should work in the right direction