Phillie: nice post, but i must also agree that the advise should be for all religions not only muslins, because God and Allah are the same ;)
I added some hadiths on another post of mine but the only reference i can give is that it's a portuguese panflet that was given to me at mosque, because site still under construction

Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ