Adey: She told me she would have problems if i don't convert, i suspect the problems are that her mother is divorced and has been supported by the remaining familly, who may abandon or exclude them both from the familly if her mother would allow her to marry non muslim.

Mojo: All those hadiths were translated by me from portuguese, you wanna a link to the source?
www.ocaminhodapaz.net , still under construction and those hadiths are in another panflet i received when i went to the mosque.
Are you saying that they are lying at the panflets given?

Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ