1- I'm proud to be arabic guy...when i get married...more than 1000 of my relative attend my marriage celebration. by the way i know all of them very well.
2- you can find fat poeple wherever you go, and this is not shame.
3- when i come back to my home country in vacation, i found around 5 cars waiting me and more than 100 person at home. this is honorable.

4- when i was graduted from the university, 50-70 car participate in driving me home. more than 150 person.

and after what i mentioned, do you think that is shame or honor.