debeers...there is this lady who received terrible burns all over her body after being involved in a car accident...and I mean TERRIBLE. She says she allows herself to cry and feel sorry for herself for only one minute and then gets over it.

Keep moving forward, whether or not you get sympathy, be it from your husband, or QLers (who I must say on this thread have been most helpful).

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