I wouldnt advice u into giving him an ultimatum that if he doesnt come here you'll dump his ass. Marriage isnt always about making the other person do what u want all the time. Agreed your working hard to support family back home but the real problem here is not him not wanting to come here coz he doesnt want to leave the kids alone, the real problem here is YOU..you've made life for a MAN who is supposed to be the one that takes care of you, way to easy. Work on trying to make him more responsible, both husband and wife need to work together not only for themselves but now they need to work for their children's future and u cant do that alone and you shouldnt do it alone coz you have a husband...make use of him. Money doesnt grow on trees around here and your husband needs to realize that.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
I wouldnt advice u into giving him an ultimatum that if he doesnt come here you'll dump his ass. Marriage isnt always about making the other person do what u want all the time. Agreed your working hard to support family back home but the real problem here is not him not wanting to come here coz he doesnt want to leave the kids alone, the real problem here is YOU..you've made life for a MAN who is supposed to be the one that takes care of you, way to easy. Work on trying to make him more responsible, both husband and wife need to work together not only for themselves but now they need to work for their children's future and u cant do that alone and you shouldnt do it alone coz you have a husband...make use of him. Money doesnt grow on trees around here and your husband needs to realize that.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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