I dont see myself as givng her negative advice in telling her to reduce sending money to her husband.. and to work on getting him to come to qatar so they can together work hand in hand to make life better...

I agree once again with Smoke.. Married life is a commitment; a promise to be together for better or worse.. and it is at the down times that we need to work harder on being together bcz thats were the right support comes from.

Debeers u have provided ur husband with too many comforts.. he just needs to understand what u are going thru.. when u talk to him.. dont build a nice picture of ur situation here just so that he doesnt worry.. no.. let him worry.. let him know that u need him here with u so together u can bring ur kids and live as a family...

When a person is working away from home.. they always try to make things easier for their family by not letting them know how hard it is .. well dont do that..

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