If you want to follow Smoke's advice.. which is the best ... i can suggest for u to implement an advice also given by someone else and that is to send money for ur daughters thru ur parents...

thru them ur daughters will be able to get the few extra luxuries that you are working ur a** for here to provide for them there..

how do u know that by sending the money which is disappearing ever so fast that ur daughters are effectively getting what they want?! how do u know its not being spent elsewhere?! maybe it isnt.. but since u are feeling that you are being taken for granted.. then work on it this way..

try to find a way to enforce ur husband to get his act together and come here so u guys can work together and hopefully soon ur children can join u ..

WYSIWYG