Even though I wanted to laugh at this, I will give you a more logical response:

EVERYONE of the (except the soldiers) issues you mentioned are ACCIDENTAL deaths. What I was talking about is the intentional taking of a human life. Big difference. That's why there is a term called man slaughter.

As for soldiers, I am all for it. As long as both countries punish their soldiers equally, which is a bit childish to expect. Of course that would mean we have to execute whoever gave the order in the first place. Which means we would have no governments left. Not such a bad idea after all ;-)