Every time you think of her imagine yourself with a Samauri sword.
Chop off her head and kick it out of the window.
it worked for me.

and everyone has been thru this.....how long ago did you split up?
it can take a few months to feel right again....

carry on moving forward....your heart will catch up.

ohhhh and some of you are so heartless and tough LOL!!! :)