aside from our partners. but it should not be an excuse to cheat since we all have a choice. we all can control our actions and stand up to it.

why people cheat? Maybe beacuse they can get away with it (after all some women thinks men cant afford to be monogamous ), or they dont know what they really want; they dont know how it is to RESPECT a partner; they thinks its acceptble after all 'were only humans' (who cant think rationally?)