Personally I think you have to have a poor self esteem to want to remain with a guy who cheats.

A friend once told me, never play games with someone's heart...you just never know what they'll do. I think people who cheat are selfish. But people who go back to their cheating partners just encourage this kind of behaviour. Men and women alike.

"Quit hanging on to the handrails . . . Let go. Surrender. Go for the ride of your life. Do it every day." Melody Beattie