I still feel the solidarity gathering would be good, rather than the 'bunch of flowers' - nice idea Oryx, but I think this is bigger perhaps. It is sending out more than just a message of sympathy to the family, a gathering is an international thing, crossing borders and boundaries, whether flowers are left, or baskets of leaves...as Amnesia said, we want the family to see that we're with them, and not trying to ignore the situation. ? If we do the Basket of leaves, I'm not sure where we get the tooth from Amnesia? That's not meant to be flippant by the way.

Anyway, its time to be one, and share the pain.

Will find out what I can anyway re family approval - as will Amnesia.

Weekend would be best, as many families may like to participate, and school won't be a problem then. Saturday seems best as Friday will have lots of prayers anyway at the various Mosques no doubt.

Angelwings

If the grass is greener on the other side, its sure the water bill is higher !