I agree with u brit, I think this posting is now going and going for no reason.

Platao, as i mentioned before, took the shahada verbally, then u are officially muslim and the girl and her family must treat u on that basis. What is in ur heart is between u and Allah, We do not need to know it.
Is that hard to do???

I think it is better to put an end for discussions here cus there is nothing more to be said in that issue.