The Question Fatima asked was she is having doubts, well like realsome said and it is abosoluted true and he is speaking for many people in the same situation.

Coming back to the point, the problem in this kind of marriages is two things, THE CULTURE and THE RELIGION,
For Mulsim to change is culture may be an option to change his Religion there is no option. So if your husband is more worried about what people will think and say then he is man of culture and if cares about what you think and how you feel then he is man of Religion.

So my dear I hope you can analyse this better and really findout what is just lust of the world and what people say or was it true love and the tolerance and the life here and the hereafter..

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HE WHO DARES WINS