Why don't you refer to the original correct books and sources if you want to practice Islam? If you will try to look over the net there you will find the good and the bad. Not everything stated on those websites is right or wrong, but some are nothing but a good source for disturbance and confusion ...

Don't compare your life with the others, talk about everything with your husband ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)