iam from a family from 2nd wife of my father, for us theres no problem we are all 12 children 6 on each mother, our mothers understand each other, our father knows how to manage, but when hardtimes come, our mothers and us understand it, we know the situation for financial prob.

it is widely practice by us filipino muslim by the way..

my advice bro. you may or may not tell ur wife its ok!

.hariin kaw katuh ha mindanao?

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