Iam hurt but not from the bad comments thrown on me but the way some muslims react. seems they have not yet accepted or understood islam fully as it should be.
what more from the non muslims..

For the muslims the issue should be no longer of whether allowed or not allowed in islam to marry more than one wife, bec. we all know that is already permitted even practice since the time of history, but it is not as expected from the muslim.

besides the rule here is that its ALLOWED not IMPOSED upon us muslim, i wonder what will be the situation if this kind was imposed or wajib upon us? maybe those who objects above will change thier belief! auju billah!

Allowed for those who can and are able to do so and if he likes, and if you dont like for what ever reason then up to you! no question ask.
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infact my post is very simple, should or should not ask the consent of the wife? because in Isalam it is valid marriage whether with or with out the consent of the wife...my point of asking and I was thinking i can get good idea, which is more preferable getting the wife consent or not?

all i thought was wrong as I checked the whole forum with different types of issues it seems no topic that every one doesn,t know.

but when it comes to this islamic issues which is should be our way of life, i can say few have learned and with good hearts.

For those who defended the real sunnah..thank you!

May allah increase our knowledge about our faith

Assalamu alaykum!

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