I just checked your profile and your age range is 26-35 so I am going to take a wild guess that your age is closer to the 26 than the 35 - that is truly the only way I can justify how a "man" would actually look to justify what you are proposing. In short - you need to grow up. Marriage is not just about monogamy it is about fidelity and fidelity is about expressing a loving relationship in terms of trust and RESPECT - something you need to learn about. Trust and respect goes both ways - not only should your wife trust and respect you (and at this point how could she) you need to trust and respect her which you obviously don't. You made a committment to HER, you had children with HER, you made your vows in front of God to HER - you need to shelve your lust and grow up.
I just checked your profile and your age range is 26-35 so I am going to take a wild guess that your age is closer to the 26 than the 35 - that is truly the only way I can justify how a "man" would actually look to justify what you are proposing. In short - you need to grow up. Marriage is not just about monogamy it is about fidelity and fidelity is about expressing a loving relationship in terms of trust and RESPECT - something you need to learn about. Trust and respect goes both ways - not only should your wife trust and respect you (and at this point how could she) you need to trust and respect her which you obviously don't. You made a committment to HER, you had children with HER, you made your vows in front of God to HER - you need to shelve your lust and grow up.