The only thing I hear in this thread is what the original poster wants. He is not once been concerned as to what his wife wants - the wife he claims to love.

Actually I believe he knows what his wife wants which is why he is contemplating taking the cowards way out and just not telling her.

You know Mr. Hunk - you claim you love your wife and you love this other girl but in reality you have no idea what love truly is and you have no idea what it means to be in a health, loving marriage. I feel sorry for you.