you are right mhdkhl muslims should have that mentality..a mentality of the early muslims who was great and firm belief... not a mentality that is influence by the book written by some one else..
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. bec if you only read islamic books no body condems anyone about marrying more than two...of course they will give you good advice... but not discourage you or no no at all...as I can feel most people above.
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