i think your wife knew this could happen when she married you...but had you discussed this issue before marriage things could have been different. for sure she would be hurt and your relationship might change and never get back to how it used to be. are you willing to face the consequences? if yes then tell her gradually...BUT "no easy way of breaking one's heart".

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