ok.. you have a certain definition for the word family, Gypsy has a different one. I have a third one..do we all have to agree ?? no..can we say.."Aahh..i see your point but thanks for sharing and leave it at that ??"
Here is my definition of the family.
Family: I don't care as long as the kids are healthy and happy. Two moms, two dads, two whatever..I don't care..
the question is..if you finally reach a definition where everyone will agree one, is it gonna make your life better ? are you a complete person now ?? MOVE ON guys.. we already know that we won't agree..then let's just co-exist..and whoever needs help, just ask and we will be there for each other..don't get too much into details..
like..should we use spoons and forks or should we eat with our hands like older generations do ?? DOES IT REALLY MATTER ?? I mean is this the only problem you are facing now ??? what's wrong with changing definitions, at least for the sake of the Kids .. who wants to hear that a kid doesn't have a natural family just because his dad passed away ??.. what kind of torture and a psychological trauma are you giving to the kid? is it necessary ?..let him/her live.. Natural or unnatural..since when have we all become professors and scientists ??
khalas..we don't agree then we don't agree..end of story.. that's my opinion..
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You want my opinion ?? hmm
ok.. you have a certain definition for the word family, Gypsy has a different one. I have a third one..do we all have to agree ?? no..can we say.."Aahh..i see your point but thanks for sharing and leave it at that ??"
Here is my definition of the family.
Family: I don't care as long as the kids are healthy and happy. Two moms, two dads, two whatever..I don't care..
the question is..if you finally reach a definition where everyone will agree one, is it gonna make your life better ? are you a complete person now ?? MOVE ON guys.. we already know that we won't agree..then let's just co-exist..and whoever needs help, just ask and we will be there for each other..don't get too much into details..
like..should we use spoons and forks or should we eat with our hands like older generations do ?? DOES IT REALLY MATTER ?? I mean is this the only problem you are facing now ??? what's wrong with changing definitions, at least for the sake of the Kids .. who wants to hear that a kid doesn't have a natural family just because his dad passed away ??.. what kind of torture and a psychological trauma are you giving to the kid? is it necessary ?..let him/her live.. Natural or unnatural..since when have we all become professors and scientists ??
khalas..we don't agree then we don't agree..end of story.. that's my opinion..
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Un-Learn what you know and Re-Learn it.