"All these biologist, Darwinist, chemistry experts, microbiologist and Anthropologist have supported the gay movement for years with this unreasonable and conceptual studies."
U know why they support us?? because they don't look at us from a sexual point of view, they don't care what we do behind closed doors, they look at us as HUMAN BEINGS. You don't need "unreasonable or conceptual" studies to find out that I'm a human being. Whether I'm American, Arab, Black, White, heterosexual, homo, bi, male, female, Asian or Afro American, I'm a human being that have rights on this earth. Especially when my religion gives me all those rights. Especially when my Qur'an says "O humankind We [God] have created you male and female, and made you into communities and tribes, so that you may know one another. Surely the noblest amongst you in the sight of God is the most God fearing of you. God is All-knowing and All-Aware" (Quran 49:13) Please note that the Qur'an said the noblest amongst you in the sight of God is the most God fearing of you, not heterosexuals, not Arabs, not homos, not blacks.. So please don't make it sound like you are "closer" to God or you are more OK with God because of your sexual orientation.
When I came out to my family, which is religious, I was surprised by a bone crushing hug from everyone and i was crying my eyes out because i thought they would disown me, but you know what the response was ?? "You are a human being, you are a family member, What God gave you is for you to learn and discipline and we are behind you supporting you in your mission" That's a family that looks beyond what gay people do behind closed doors and realise what is more important in this society. That i'm a brother, a son, a person who contributes in his community, an athlete. The same goes to you, whether you have premarital sex or not, whatever you do behind closed doors, whatever woman you chose to be with, whatever creature you chose to be with, it is none of my business. You are still a human being in front of me. Your sexual orientation is not any different from your nationality or your passport. You can disbelieve in God for all I care, you are still a human being and I owe you respect for your being and i have to grant your rights because that\s what a civilized human being does.
Other than the sexual contact between two men or two women, what else do we do wrong ?? do we eat incorrectly, walk incorrectly, work incorrectly.. take the sex thing out..what is it in our "behavior" that bothers you and makes us a social disease ?? We are not living to screw each other..excuse my language..i'm capable of enjoying the beach, cooking, shopping, traveling.. i don't follow the first @$$ that i see in the street. I mean cummon..i think with the RIGHT HEAD!! (No pon intended)
"Just because you choose to be homosexual or Lesbian, No one has taken away your civil rights or strip you from them."
Richard Green, a psychiatrist from UCLA has compared effeminate with "masculine" boys. 5 Children who grow up to become homosexuals often engage in "gender inappropriate play" in early childhood. 6 "'Feminine' boys played about four times as much with the doll...a third as much with the truck." By interviewing their child subjects later in life when they were in their teens and early twenties, the researchers found that 75% of the effeminate boys had become gay adult males. It is obvious that these boys were not taught this behavior. They did not copy their behavior from other children in the family; they were often under harsh and severe pressure from their parents to change. One reasonable conclusion is that that they are driven to this type of behavior by an innate trait which is outside of their control and consciousness.
So in order for you to just feel like saying it is a choice, i think you need to read more about the psychology of decision making. When a person makes a decision, it requires conscious to be able to tell the difference between what you are choosing from. Often time is a vital factor in your decision making process. So how old were you when you decided to be straight ?? what did you know back then about the difference between gay and straight outside of the sexual context to take such decision?? knowing that sexual orientation is often determined in your early childhood. U must have been a superman for knowing the difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality at an early age to make a conscious decision. I mean if sexual orientation is a choice, then you'd better be able to answer those questions. Awaiting your reply on those ones.
Let me share my personal experience about this CHOICE you are talking about. I was married for 2 years because I felt that I owe it to myself to try to "change that choice", but it never worked. Why ?? because i realized that i have to live with what i have. A person who choses a life that is against his own religion or belief AND his social surroundings is called STUPID not GAY. And please note that my ex-wife whom i admire for her courage for standing by me, knew about me being gay BEFORE we got married and she wanted to help. It just didn't work. I needed to know what was causing it to change it. I can't just split my mind open and start looking.. be logical please and don't through opinions. Quote some research studies, quote some facts to support your argument.
I hope this helps you understand our side better, God bless!!
"All these biologist, Darwinist, chemistry experts, microbiologist and Anthropologist have supported the gay movement for years with this unreasonable and conceptual studies."
U know why they support us?? because they don't look at us from a sexual point of view, they don't care what we do behind closed doors, they look at us as HUMAN BEINGS. You don't need "unreasonable or conceptual" studies to find out that I'm a human being. Whether I'm American, Arab, Black, White, heterosexual, homo, bi, male, female, Asian or Afro American, I'm a human being that have rights on this earth. Especially when my religion gives me all those rights. Especially when my Qur'an says "O humankind We [God] have created you male and female, and made you into communities and tribes, so that you may know one another. Surely the noblest amongst you in the sight of God is the most God fearing of you. God is All-knowing and All-Aware" (Quran 49:13) Please note that the Qur'an said the noblest amongst you in the sight of God is the most God fearing of you, not heterosexuals, not Arabs, not homos, not blacks.. So please don't make it sound like you are "closer" to God or you are more OK with God because of your sexual orientation.
When I came out to my family, which is religious, I was surprised by a bone crushing hug from everyone and i was crying my eyes out because i thought they would disown me, but you know what the response was ?? "You are a human being, you are a family member, What God gave you is for you to learn and discipline and we are behind you supporting you in your mission" That's a family that looks beyond what gay people do behind closed doors and realise what is more important in this society. That i'm a brother, a son, a person who contributes in his community, an athlete. The same goes to you, whether you have premarital sex or not, whatever you do behind closed doors, whatever woman you chose to be with, whatever creature you chose to be with, it is none of my business. You are still a human being in front of me. Your sexual orientation is not any different from your nationality or your passport. You can disbelieve in God for all I care, you are still a human being and I owe you respect for your being and i have to grant your rights because that\s what a civilized human being does.
Other than the sexual contact between two men or two women, what else do we do wrong ?? do we eat incorrectly, walk incorrectly, work incorrectly.. take the sex thing out..what is it in our "behavior" that bothers you and makes us a social disease ?? We are not living to screw each other..excuse my language..i'm capable of enjoying the beach, cooking, shopping, traveling.. i don't follow the first @$$ that i see in the street. I mean cummon..i think with the RIGHT HEAD!! (No pon intended)
"Just because you choose to be homosexual or Lesbian, No one has taken away your civil rights or strip you from them."
Richard Green, a psychiatrist from UCLA has compared effeminate with "masculine" boys. 5 Children who grow up to become homosexuals often engage in "gender inappropriate play" in early childhood. 6 "'Feminine' boys played about four times as much with the doll...a third as much with the truck." By interviewing their child subjects later in life when they were in their teens and early twenties, the researchers found that 75% of the effeminate boys had become gay adult males. It is obvious that these boys were not taught this behavior. They did not copy their behavior from other children in the family; they were often under harsh and severe pressure from their parents to change. One reasonable conclusion is that that they are driven to this type of behavior by an innate trait which is outside of their control and consciousness.
So in order for you to just feel like saying it is a choice, i think you need to read more about the psychology of decision making. When a person makes a decision, it requires conscious to be able to tell the difference between what you are choosing from. Often time is a vital factor in your decision making process. So how old were you when you decided to be straight ?? what did you know back then about the difference between gay and straight outside of the sexual context to take such decision?? knowing that sexual orientation is often determined in your early childhood. U must have been a superman for knowing the difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality at an early age to make a conscious decision. I mean if sexual orientation is a choice, then you'd better be able to answer those questions. Awaiting your reply on those ones.
Let me share my personal experience about this CHOICE you are talking about. I was married for 2 years because I felt that I owe it to myself to try to "change that choice", but it never worked. Why ?? because i realized that i have to live with what i have. A person who choses a life that is against his own religion or belief AND his social surroundings is called STUPID not GAY. And please note that my ex-wife whom i admire for her courage for standing by me, knew about me being gay BEFORE we got married and she wanted to help. It just didn't work. I needed to know what was causing it to change it. I can't just split my mind open and start looking.. be logical please and don't through opinions. Quote some research studies, quote some facts to support your argument.
I hope this helps you understand our side better, God bless!!