Mis-cat, will try your suggestion next time, not sure if there will be a next time though:-).

Thing, is, this guy is so sweet, and we get on really well. He has been calling me everyday since then, asking to see me again, lol, at least I know I didn't do that badly, or I would assume that, if he wants to see me again.

Anyway, hope this topic helps someone else that decides to try a one nigther, in that they will think about it before actually doing it, and try to figure out what they will do after the fact.