and the responses range from lectures, to advice to absolute humour. Thanks all of you for your input.

Yip, Alexa, you got it right, no relation or strings connected between the two though;-) Try not to spit in the well, as I never know when I might have to drink the water.

Kareena, learn from my experience, think first, act after;-)

Kellysheroes, as far as i am aware, I am free to post what I like, but thanks for the advice.