sorry but I didn't get married in front of god almighty, both hubby and i still manage to maintain our individuality as we booth relise one very important thing, it was our individuality that attracted the other. People who believe that when you enter a relationship that you have to become one are kidding themselves, they try to hard to please the other person by being some one they are not, eventually it comes to an end with the simple phrase "you are not the person I fell in love with"