everything in those 5 words ...never been there yet, but everything happened for a reason and if you will think a little, open your heart a little more you will find the answers to all of your questions ... The thing is we don't see ourselves being in the situation, the people around us can see that but ... in the end the final decision should be up to you ... why? Because you will not hear those people agreeing on one opinion ... would they?

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)