Why would you think you could make a statement like that and not get raked over the coals for it?

I am not a scam artist, liar, or gold digger, but i am a woman that is not about to get into a relationship with someone that doesn't have a certain appeal to me.

Yes, all woman want security, but that doesn't mean we are out to pick up and dump a man when someone better(richer) comes along. Sometimes just having the love and companionship is enough.