Thanks for your reply. I really want to go to the General Manager and try to get some sort of clarification... but I'm a bit reluctant since I do have to live with her until I get my Residence Permit.

The Qatari is liberal as in he's very easy going I feel for a Qatari like he drinks, he swears etc. If that makes sense.

I am very nervous if I make to much of a fuss they will ask me to go on to a Family Visa, which is impossible for me and my husband does not earn enough.