Thanks, it's nice to see that there are a few level headed people on here. I will consider my package.

For sure, one can find all sorts, all over, but there are ex pat cultures within a country (like Charisma men in Japan)This is why I ask. It's not meant to hurt anyone's delicate feelings, of raise anyone's blood pressure to the point where their head blows off.

So I am gratefull to everyone who is able to give a little insight from their point of view.

Cheers!