thread but not the posts ... Well, it is not that easy and we can be there for you but we can't really help you to move on. You should have the well to move on and ... it is just hard as ... I did not reach that stage yet, but preparing myself for the worst which will just destroy my life ...

If you end up that relation for a good reason then it would be kind of easier [not really] for you to move on. The memories, the sweet ones would hunt you for a while ... whenever the chance would be there to remind you with that and you know that better. Can be a place, a song, something that you always do daily but not anymore and it can be simple as being fetched and dropped.

Life is just unfair, we know that but in the same time it is really stronger than us and that is why sometimes we have no more options but what it is in front of us. Are these options convenient to us?Is that what we really want to do? Is life doing nothing but putting more traps in front of us, waiting for us to fall again and again to laugh at us and make us always miserable?

It will take time ... and it depends on ... a lot of factors are there and ... what effect some it does not do with the others, sorry ... but there is no single day that I can't feel the pain in my heart literally ..

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)