Blue eyes - I have to ask although you are free to tell me its not any of my business. Have you met your BF in person before? I got the impression from your post that this is the first time you will be meeting him in person, that you really don't know him all that well. Everything you know is what he told you not what you have experienced by being with him. Did you meet him online and are now flying to Doha to meet him in person?