that would be far from the morals and ethics from both sides ... I mean women chasing married men and vice versa ... just unacceptable as what you are doing is nothing but ruining a family.

You should have a good reasons for what are you doing like they are getting divorced and soon both would be walking two different ways ... but to do that for just doing that or knowing that this family got no issues?

Stay just out of this ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)