i don’t know and I hope no one will get mad at my comment. But i think it is based on the fact that single women are somehow feeling insecure so they keep up on good shape until they get hooked up, find the right guy and marry.. This is the transition point.. Where they loosen up in the exercises they used to do to stay on shape “ by the way ladies it is the first step of becoming an elephant” because they start to feel that they are more secure and Someone is loving them..

The Second step is they get pregnant which means more security and they deliver
The baby “which means to them that they are way beyond secure ... This is in my opinion actually the point of being an elephant .. Because after the first baby they are ultimately secure.. so All the weight they gain and will gain can stay because they don’t have time to work out they are taking care of the baby ”security” or the house or the husband.. And the drama will start.

I am sorry... I am not trying to be rude to anyone. And not trying to hurt or offend any of you ladies “ I know some of you well” .just be honest with your self and with us. Just think it over in your head... before you put your comment upon my comment.. And start your comment by yes you are right or no you are wrong and explain after that … just don’t attack me attack the truth. I have nothing against anybody..

Cheers