preparing my own coffee and I have no issues if the guy will ask me :) Did not face this one up to now so I don't know how to react ..

I will of course ask him for what he needs the money and ... will tell him that I can help him this time but he should be careful about his budget as if i were able to help him this time I may not next time as i have also my financial issues to take care of :)

Just simple like that, our office boy was really nice and he was asking me if i need to cash my Cheques back then and would never even accept anything from me for this service ... so what I was doing .. I will buy sometimes a sandwich and another for him ... will share some food or drinks with him ... as he was always refusing to take any money and will tell me ... we are just friends .... no money from friends :)

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)