every month for more than a year and half.  I also gave her 100QR for her birthday and 500QR for a bonus each year.   She was a good maid and I felt sorry for her circumstances, but I was being taken advantage of in the end and had to put a stop to it.    I have family members of my own that I am helping to support and can't be the world's bank.

 

I say help someone  once, if you feel capable, but don't feel bad if you stop at that.   We all do what we can.