stop dragging others names? If we will joke about it between us, then the others who got no idea might get us wrong here. If i was someone who was not there, I would say maybe ... who knows ...

I'm sure that it does not happen, otherwise the empty pool would be really full with water and Charan would be enjoying diving there with the heavy BBQ gear tied up to his feet deep kissing his life goodbye :)

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)