cris said earlier .. woman have desire only with the man that she loves and care about, with the man he can have desire without love, he can have love and desire ... but in the second case ... he can lose the love if the desire is gone ... while with the woman the desire will go if there is no more love ... kind of complicated i guess but ... :)

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)