If the woman and man would be the same then? It is not only women who got blind when they are in love ... also men do .. depending on how honest that man is with you ...

If he is just fooling around, playing with your emotions only ... he won't feel any trouble or problem later ... hunter by nature ... but a bad one too ... will hunt the weak ones only ... True friendship between a man and a woman is really difficult to be something true ... just a myth ...

God create us this way so we would be always needing each other, loving each other to the end .. If I can live my whole life without a woman ... If the woman can live her whole life needing no man ... then? God could've created us only men or women ....

Just the nature of this universe ... God's wisdom always is far behind our ability as humans to understand ... He is always doing the best for us ... so no need to be worry ... What trouble you got, if it is destined to happen then it won't mistake you ... and whatever mistaken you ... it was not meant for you then ...

Meaning ... Bad things happen for a reason, part of your destiny and you can't avoid it ... Bad things happened to others happen also for a reason , don't think that it will happen to you because it happen to them ... it was not just your destiny ..

Sorry for the complicated logic here ... love is so simple and nice, but when it hurts ... it become the most complicated thing ever ... as you would never know how to deal with all of that pain, different mixed emotions that you got ..

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)