@ flexicode : these aren't rumors... i work in a restaurant... i see a lot of them...

What's it to you anyway? Let them be! It's their decision and you have no right to question it. If they choose to take a different path than the rest of us, they shouldn't be treated differently... that's one of the first things we all learn about human rights.

It's their choice, let them be! Just ignore them like they ignore you!