I think it was Eleanor Roosevelt said something like..

'Every new love is like the last in a duller dress'. It doesn't make sense now that it was ER, cos her bloke probably wasn't into dresses... but whoever it was, was right:S

Lol.. No idea, but I'm there... but practical. I think it comes with age and experience. I AM sure that Shakespeare said 'These violent passions have violent ends'. Spot on.