I had believed that we were committed.  He had asked me to marry him and I was coming to meet him there.  But then I keep seeing where he is on other sites trying to get women so I am confused.  Now what.

LDR can work but both have you have to have the same goal...I guess his goals are different than mine.

Love all the answers by the way and have thought of them all.  Needed to hear it I guess.  Thanks