that much to me as virginity is not always the right scale ... A lot these days would do whatever they want to do and before getting married she will go for a surgery to fix it again [talking about Arabic Societies] ...

We are just in a hard time these days where you will need more than a virgin man or woman to tell ... how good or bad they might be ...

One more thing, if i like a divorced lady or fall in love with one ... should i give up the idea marrying her because she is not a virgin anymore?

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)