What I mean by that is in any job we take we must look at the consequences of holding the position. Whether it is from a family perspective or financial point of view or even if it goes against our morale.

However those choices that we make should be in light of other prospects that do not hinder our intellectual growth or make less important our ambitious career plans whilst maintaining the values we so dearly hold.

And the type of muslims who do, what you have mentioned,  to their daughters, wives and sisters are among the oppressors.

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi