We have an islamic saying

 

be like a slave for your husband and he will be a slave for you.

 

What I find in asian women is that they have grasped this concept. And western women resent this and think its manipulative.

 

Just read a fascinating book by Laura Schlesinger or something called "The caring and feedings of husbands"...

 

Very very interesting! As it talks about women anticipating their partners needs and stop being so selfish all the time. If he tells you to jump and turn off the lights its not hard to do considering that if you ask him to do the same he will! Or he should Tongue out

 

 

 

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi