ksarat.. i think in an event when things go out of control for some other reason.. and this gal is the one u wanna be wid forever.. u need to pull up ur sleeves n see how to resolve the whole thing.. convince all who may creat trouble(if they r ur parents or someone real close).. relatives n society.. well i say forget about them.. they just need a hot topic to talk upon.. its in ur head..if u think its right... convince them who need to be convinced...