Canary.....  I asked a question and expected to get an answer.  I didnt come on here to find a way to get out of it.  If you think I dont know what reality is, get on a plane fly a little north to a country called Iraq or a little west to a country called Afghanistan and you'll see reality.  What has happend is accidental and was out of my control.  Im sure even you have had mistakes in you life. So lay off with the BS and help someone who is trying to fix a mistake. 

As for everyone else thats posted... I really appreciate the help

Enjoy your points canary!  Not saying you've earned them