Lucky_charm, ask yourself how long you can get along like this?, why is he doing this to you? Why are you inlove to this person who seem doen't really care if you exist, and seems not serious to be married? You are obviously at each others end... think twice, wise, and nice! You are still that understanding becauseyou still don't have a kid, but if you do, then i don't think you can just let him do what he wanted you to do.

  I am sorry, but this is one way relationship baby..you need a big fluffy pillow in the next days to come... 

"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches  you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."